From Fierce Critic to Trusted Ally: Inside Lindsey Graham’s Unlikely Bond With Trump
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WASHINGTON, July 12 — Lindsey Graham’s long political relationship with Donald Trump began with deeply personal insults, survived repeated public disagreements and ended as one of the most consequential alliances of the Trump era.
During the 2016 Republican presidential campaign, Graham portrayed Trump as dangerously unqualified for the White House. He objected strongly when Trump attacked the military record of Graham’s close friend and political mentor, Senator John McCain, and refused to support Trump in the general election.
Their conflict became unusually personal after Trump publicly disclosed Graham’s cellphone number during a campaign appearance. Graham responded by recording a humorous video in which he destroyed an old phone using several methods, including a blender and a golf club.
At that stage, few observers could have imagined Graham becoming one of Trump’s most reliable defenders in Congress.
Yet after Trump entered the White House, the relationship changed dramatically.
The two men developed a personal connection through golf, private conversations and a shared taste for combative politics. Graham later said spending time with Trump allowed him to understand the president differently from those who knew him only through public appearances.
Their alliance also served important political purposes.
Trump gained an experienced senator who understood Congress, national security and foreign policy. Graham gained direct access to a president whose dominance over Republican voters was reshaping the party. He became an important advocate for Trump’s judicial nominees, defended him through investigations and impeachment proceedings, and frequently promoted the administration’s agenda on television.
Graham’s support was especially valuable because he had not always belonged to Trump’s political movement. His earlier association with McCain and his reputation as a traditional Republican foreign-policy hawk helped Trump build connections with parts of the party establishment that had initially resisted him.
The friendship nevertheless remained complicated.
Graham continued to hold interventionist foreign-policy positions that sometimes conflicted with Trump’s more isolationist instincts. He strongly supported Ukraine, Israel and NATO, while repeatedly advocating tougher sanctions and potential military action against Iran.
He also occasionally criticised Trump directly.
After supporters of the president attacked the US Capitol on January 6, 2021, Graham declared that his political journey with Trump had reached its conclusion, telling fellow senators that “enough is enough.” He later said Trump bore responsibility for creating the conditions that produced the violence.
But the separation did not last.
Within weeks, Graham travelled to Trump’s Mar-a-Lago residence and resumed defending his influence over the Republican Party. He argued that the GOP could not succeed electorally by abandoning Trump or his supporters.
The pattern repeated itself in later disputes.
Graham criticised Trump’s reluctance to support a federal abortion ban and called his sweeping pardons for January 6 offenders a mistake, particularly where violence against police officers was involved. Nevertheless, those differences never caused a lasting rupture.
By Trump’s subsequent presidential campaign, Graham had again become a prominent surrogate and adviser. He defended Trump publicly while privately attempting to steer him toward Graham’s traditional positions on military power, alliances and global security.
Their relationship therefore cannot be explained solely as friendship, fear or political opportunism.
It was all three, combined with a practical recognition that each man could offer something the other needed.
Trump provided Graham with relevance and access inside a Republican Party increasingly organised around one dominant figure. Graham offered Trump loyalty, legislative experience and credibility on foreign-policy matters.
The alliance also reflected the larger transformation of the Republican Party. Graham’s journey from calling Trump unfit for office to becoming one of his closest congressional allies mirrored the path followed by many Republicans who initially resisted Trump before accepting his control over the party.
Still, Graham never became a perfect ideological follower.
He remained more committed than Trump to Ukraine, NATO and an assertive American role abroad. Those differences occasionally caused visible tension, but Graham generally chose influence from inside Trump’s circle over opposition from outside it.
Following Graham’s death at 71 after what his office described as a brief and sudden illness, Trump called him a true American patriot and one of the greatest senators he had known. Graham’s death removed not only a prominent Republican voice but one of the few lawmakers who could publicly disagree with Trump and still regularly regain his confidence.
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The most consequential element of the Graham-Trump relationship was not simply Graham’s political conversion. It was his ability to repeatedly criticise Trump, briefly break with him and then return to a position of influence—making him both a loyal defender and an occasional internal restraint on the president.